Stronger relationships, built together.
A steady, close relationship isn't down to luck. It's something you can learn to build.
Relationship coaching for couples and individuals who want deeper connection, better communication, and lasting stability. Online worldwide, and in person in Paphos and Vienna. In English and German.
Free · 30 min · no obligation
For couples and individuals who want to understand what keeps happening between them, instead of just working around it.
Common themes
- 01The same argument on repeat, whether it ends in raised voices or silence
- 02A quiet distance, even when you both want it to work
- 03Trust that got shaken, and the slow work of earning it back
- 04Closeness and desire that have gone quiet
- 05Big transitions: moving in together, marriage, a baby, a move abroad
For internationals & expats
Love across borders carries its own weight.
Binational and international couples move between different languages, cultures and unspoken expectations. Relocation can cut you off from the friends, family and routines that once held you, and place all of that weight on the relationship itself. It's a frequent focus of the work, and a big reason many international couples reach out.
Underneath the same argument, there is usually a pattern.
I don't treat a relationship as a problem to be fixed. We look at how each of you responds when it matters most, and build the capacity to stay present in closeness, in conflict, and in the responsibility that comes with both. Grounded in attachment, emotional regulation, the Gottman Method and sex therapy, without the jargon.
What people carry out of the work.
We came in stuck in the same argument we'd had for years. The work never tried to fix us. It helped us see what was really happening between us, and slowly start responding differently.
M. & T.
What I valued most was how grounded it felt. No pressure to perform or change overnight. Just noticing what really happens, and learning to stay.
C. R.
As an international couple, we kept misreading each other across two cultures. This finally gave us words for it.
A. & L.
However you'd like to start.
Not sure where to start?
The first conversation is a calm, no-pressure way to see whether this work fits. No obligation, and confidential from the very first message.