Question 1

Is this therapy?

Accepted Answer

No. This is not clinical therapy and does not diagnose or treat mental illness. It is structured, reflective relational work that helps you understand patterns, emotional reactions and responsibility — and respond differently.

Question 2

Do we both need to come?

Accepted Answer

Not necessarily. Couples work is strongest with both partners, but individual relational work is just as valid, and many people start alone.

Question 3

What if only one of us wants to start?

Accepted Answer

That is common. The work begins with whoever is ready and stays focused on your perspective, responsibility and development — not on fixing the other person.

Question 4

How is this different from couples therapy or life coaching?

Accepted Answer

It is not about goal-setting, motivation or performance, and it is not clinical treatment. It is about how you relate under pressure, and building the capacity to stay present in closeness, conflict and responsibility. The focus is depth and integration, not quick results.

Question 5

Online or in person?

Accepted Answer

Both. Sessions take place online worldwide, or in person in Paphos and Vienna.

Question 6

Which languages?

Accepted Answer

Sessions are available in English and German.

Question 7

Do you work with international and binational couples?

Accepted Answer

Yes, frequently. Cultural differences, languages and the isolation that can come with relocation are a common focus of the work.

Question 8

How long does it take?

Accepted Answer

There is no fixed timeline. Some start with a few sessions for clarity; others choose ongoing work over several months for sustainable change. We discuss this in the initial consultation.

Question 9

Is it confidential?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Confidentiality is fundamental — it applies from the first contact and continues after the work ends. Nothing is shared with third parties.

Question 10

What happens in the initial consultation?

Accepted Answer

A structured, low-pressure first conversation: what brings you here, the patterns you are noticing, and whether this work fits you right now. There is no obligation to continue.

Question 11

Can this save our relationship?

Accepted Answer

That cannot be promised, and it would be misleading to claim it. The role of the work is to help you gain clarity about your wishes, options and responsibilities, so you can make informed, authentic decisions.

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